3 Ways to Listen

First Way – I’m Right your Right 

• Whatever you are saying I agree with which means you are right
• Recognize RyR – Lots of agreeing and head nodding yes
• Sometimes you feel there is not more to learn because you both have all the answers to this situation or discussion.

 Second Way – I’m Right your Wrong 

• Whatever you are saying I do not agree with which means you are wrong
• Recognize RyW – You are thinking of what you want to say next. You are never truly listening.
• When judgment starts –  learning stops 

 Third Way and where you want to be – Being With  

• No judgment or arguing
• Just being curious
• Your limiting beliefs are at rest
• You are asking questions
• You are real hearing the other person
• Learning and seeing another perspective
• You will make statements like “ I am having a hard time with that help me get from point “A” to point “B”

 This will be work in progress to stay in “Being With” I promise it will be worth your effort. Your prize will be better understanding of others, greater success in all things and less conflict in your life.